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Why Sex-Positive Self-Care Starts With the Right Tool for Solo Pleasure

I have a confession. For years I treated my own pleasure like a chore, something to squeeze in between work emails and folding laundry. I would rush, feel a flicker of guilt, and then wonder why I felt more tense than before. The idea of solo intimacy as a genuine act of care for myself never really landed until I stopped viewing it as a performance and started seeing it as practice. That shift began the day I stopped using whatever was lying around and invested in a tool th